The Art and Science of Love

A weekend couples workshop based on science

Workshop Reviews

Over 100 couples have attended a couples workshop with HealingBridge. Here is what some of them have said:

Strengthen your relationship in 2 days

The Art and Science of Love workshop is a two-day event grounded on what actually works in relationships that are happy and stable. See for yourself why millions of couples worldwide have benefited from the Gottman Method. This is a synchronous event with Q&A throughout the session, as well as private roving therapist support during each exercise time. Additionally, couples will receive a physical box set of workshop materials to further their learning by use of tangible materials.

2 days filled with engaging presentations and experiential activities designed to confirm, strengthen, or restore your love. For couples of every age, ability, and sexual orientation. Shown to achieve results similar to those of 6 months of marital therapy. Has produced positive results for 94% of those who attend.

Based on over 50 years of research with thousands of couples, The Art and Science of Love workshop will give you new insights and research-based skills that can dramatically improve the intimacy and friendship in your relationship and help you manage conflict in a healthy, positive way.

The Art and Science of Love

The Art and Science of Love is now offered virtually as well as in-person.

About the workshop

Our curriculum is developed from 50 years of research with more than 3,000 couples from the Gottman Institute. It’s grounded on what actually works in relationships that are happy and stable, not idealistic notions or anecdotal evidence of what a relationship should be. On day one, you will learn how to build friendship in your relationship and express feelings of respect and affection. On day two, you will learn how to manage conflict and communicate effectively.

The workshop has produced positive results for 94% of those who attend based on exit surveys!

What will I learn?

There are 6 main topics:

Who is the workshop for?

This workshop is designed for ALL couples in a committed relationship. You do not need to be married. If you have a strong relationship, this workshop will provide you with insights and tools to foster further closeness, friendship, and trust. If your relationship is distressed, this two-day workshop will provide you with a greater understanding of your relationship and a road map for repair.

No public discussion or disclosure is involved. All work is done as a couple and Gottman-trained therapists are available to support one-on-one during exercises. This educational workshop may not be appropriate for couples dealing with addiction, domestic violence, or other serious relationship issues. In those situations, we recommend seeking counseling with a Gottman-trained therapist.

What is included in the price?

In addition to a greater understanding of how to build friendship, manage conflict, and create shared meaning in your relationship, you will receive The Art and Science of Love box set, which contains:

  • 2 Couples Workbooks

  • 1 Repair Checklist

  • 1 Aftermath of a Fight Booklet

  • 7 Card Decks

    • Love Map

    • Opportunity

    • Open-Ended Questions

    • Rituals of Connection

    • Salsa (Mild, Medium, Hot)

No public discussion or disclosure is involved. All work is done as a couple and Gottman-trained therapists are available to support one-on-one during exercises. This educational workshop may not be appropriate for couples dealing with addiction, domestic violence, or other serious relationship issues. In those situations, we recommend seeking counseling with a Gottman-trained therapist.

Pricing

  • Campbellsville University Staff, Faculty, and Students

    • Early bird: $650 (ends one month before workshop)

    • Regular: $700

  • All Others

    • Early bird: $700 (ends one month before workshop)

    • Regular: $750

FAQs

  • No. Each day we will have time to listen to speaker present Gottman tools and then there will be time for couples to go off alone to discuss/put into practice the tools learned. Couples sit as an audience during the lectures, but for couples’ individual exercises we provide lots of extra space and seating for you to engage in those exercises with plenty of privacy. Couples will not be asked to publicly participate in any exercises in front of the audience, nor will any of your exercises be publicly disclosed by HealingBridge in any form.

  • We usually have catered snacks and you are welcome to bring your own lunch or order food during our lunch break.

  • The Art and Science of Love has been shown to achieve results similar to those of 6 months of couples therapy and 94% of previous workshop attendees have reported positive results after attending this groundbreaking weekend workshop.

  • The venue, weather, time of year, and several other factors affect the size of each workshop. HealingBridge’s workshops with Jonathan Shippey tend to average between 8-25 couples.

  • Couples of all ages, incomes, races, nationalities, professions, religions, abilities, and orientations attend our workshops. Couples attend who already have a strong, healthy relationship, and couples attend to repair relationship damage and get back on track. Parents sometimes attend who have decided to end their relationship but want to do so in a way that doesn’t negatively impact their children, and receive skills to become healthy co-parents moving forward. We welcome all couples who want to work on making their relationship stronger.

  • We strongly encourage all couples in committed relationships to attend, whether you are dating, engaged and seeking premarital preparation, not married and living together, or committed to a potentially life-long relationship but don’t plan to get married—this workshop is for you!

  • Yes. We welcome all couples. While some of the workshop language is heteronormative, our curriculum does include research data on same-sex relationships.

  • Yes. HealingBridge is Veteran-owned.

  • Per couple.

  • Yes. Gift certificates are available upon request.

  • Sorry, no. Our workshops are specifically designed to be interactive and experiential for couples only.

  • We understand that sometimes, “life happens” and plans change. If you need to cancel, you will receive a full refund (less a $50 processing fee) when you cancel at least 3 weeks prior to the workshop. If you need to cancel within 3 weeks of the workshop, your registration fee (less a $50 processing fee) will be converted to a one-time credit valid for a full year toward registration for a future Art & Science of Love workshop offered by Jonathan Shippey. If the workshop is cancelled for any reason by HealingBridge, you will receive a 100% refund of the registration cost.

  • Our highly experienced team of Certified Gottman Therapists are on hand at every workshop. These therapists are available to work one-on-one with you during the exercises. Couples are not required to use clinical help, but we strongly encourage using this resource while you have the opportunity.

  • Virtual: You will receive the materials by email before the workshop.

    In-Person: You will receive materials upon arrival at the venue.

  • Yes. Couples who attend our workshop tend to fall into two categories: enhancement and repair. We applaud couples who are wise enough to attend the workshop for enhancement purposes. Our brains are more open to new learning when we are not stressed out, and our workshop is designed with plenty of humor and romance, so enhancement couples have a terrific time while learning. Feedback from both enhancement and repair couples indicates that the couples workshop is very beneficial.

  • Sometimes. While each situation is unique, we do have many couples attend the workshop who are separated or have begun divorce proceedings. These couples continue to report that the workshop was very helpful to them. Our staff will discuss the specifics of your situation with you during the registration process to see if it is appropriate for you.

  • There are no prerequisites to attending a couples workshop. The workshop is self-contained and is appropriate even if you’ve never heard of Dr. John Gottman and his work. Some find it helpful to peruse the information and videos on our website, but even this is not required.

  • No. We recognize that newborns spend a lot of time sleeping, and it is difficult to be away from them during the first couples months. However, you will not be able to focus entirely on your relationship and it can be a distraction for other couples.

  • If you are coming from out of town, our staff will provide hotel information located near the venue. If you are local, you can certainly go home. However, we recommend you try to preserve your focus on your relationship throughout the entire weekend, if possible. Try not to go home to kids, jobs, neighbors, pets, all the daily distractions and stressors we face. Try to keep the weekend just for the two of you.

  • Discounts are available for current Campbellsville University faculty, staff, and students.

  • If you are a therapist, you can attend a Couples Workshop and apply through The Gottman Institute for Continuing Education credits through the APA and NYS boards.